O's support

Today I may be driving down the hill to redlands to look at a house with O and M, but its a bit in the air. I was also supposed to drive down to help clean their apartment, but O put a pin in that for now.

I need to drop ship some stuff, mostly returns, but if I plan it right, i could do that while heading down to see O.

I'm worried about him, tbh, he's been in a bad headspace for weeks now, and while I suspect I know how to pull him out, I can't commit that time to him. I love him, deeply, but my marriage is still holding and I have to prioritize that until it doesn't.