What the actual fuck, my guy!

So, E forgot that I went out and tried to fix the gate before the rain hit..

Context: we started talking about a game we both play, and the fact that I can't just sit and play all day because shit won't get done in the house if I do..
E: I know, like the gate.. no one else would go even go look at it..
Me: the fuck? I told you when it failed again that I was out there flipping breakers, pulling the housing off and looking at the wiring..
E: no you didn't..
Me: the fuck I didn't! I told you I was out there for a few hours trying to puzzle it out, but I couldn't see the wires that were disconnected or where they should be connected in order to fix it - and it was after I told you that that you offered to look.
E: I don't remember that..

....breathing... Even when I go 'above and beyond' the housewife tasks i get overlooked. The fuck?? Sorry -- VENTING so it doesn't fester.. I've had a morning.

So O is leaving (not soon, but soon) and E is taking me for granted. But I'm supposed to be okay with all of it?!?


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