Tonight's Events

Today I have a Firelace meeting to host, and a Ball to attend.

The Firelace meeting is routine, meet with people i know, talk, plan, discard said plans, and go on my merry way.

The Ball, on the other hand will be a new experience. Familiar people, and a familiar place, but new dress, and anxiety over being the temporary center of attention. I won't be long in the center, but any time, when undesired, eats away at me. My husband will be at my side, so I won't be alone; but he's not O.

The full moon is tonight, rising into Libra. All of the omens say change is coming, and not small change either. In some ways I'm ready for it, in others I'm nervous. I wish I knew what the future holds for me. I wish I knew it included O, in the position I'd prefer; but only time will tell that fate. I know he's tired of waiting, already, it's his nature. I'm honestly a bit tired of waiting, too; but I can't break vows once made. They have to be severed by someone or something other than me. I want to roll over into O's presence or if not I want to know he's close.

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