Family Drama

#venting it's bullshit that D, A and R can't get over their own egos to be present for someone who's going under the knife and tolerate someone they don't like who is also a friend to the person under the knife. It's just BS.. O would be civil to them, if they'd just get over themselves...

O is no saint, he's said and done some pretty scrappy shit. But at least he's willing to try to make amends.

D (far as I've seen) can make no such statements. "I'll talk to him, if that's what you want Mom, but the first time he says something i don't like, it's over.."

I've watched him, apparently, spending money sent to him by O for their shared phone bill at Disneyland instead of on the bill as agreed. Truth, idk, I know D has passes, but it sure seemed suspicious! I know the money was sent, as it was given to me to send to D, and i did so. And within days D was off to Disney with family in tow (or alone idk) and spending money he/she supposedly didnt have; or makinf mods to the car they previously had asked for donations to make happen. Seems damn sus to me!

Of course I'm gonna support D and their efforts and struggles. I called him/them son/bobbins, and they called me 'mom' in return - I'm there for them. 100%! But holy fuck!!

O also once called me mom, so I'm there for him,  even around the shifts in how we feel for each other (no longer mom, but eventual mate). I'll support them both, though one barely tolerates the other - and I desperately wanted D and O to end their coldwar because it's hard on me, but more because I think they could use each other in their corners.

Anyway, stepping down from venting.